Re: contracting at an SMP cadet
Originally Posted by
Jackal
I'm an 2nd year cadet at my university and I just came back from Basic and ait in september. I'm trying to get contracted as an SMP cadet. I currently have a 250 PT score and a 3.4 gpa.
Now here's the issue. About a week ago I had a very, very rough break up with my ex girlfriend. She has had prior issues with depression and anxiety which have resurfaced after starting college this year. She just filed a police report against me for texting and calling her because she would not return my stuff. No charges were filed it was just a report.
How big of an issue is this regarding contracting? I'm shooting to stay in the guard as an officer. my record was completely clean before this.
1. Cut off all contact right now. What she will do next is not the worth the hassel.
2. If you really can't let your stuff go, get police assitance. See if they will escort you there to avoid further contact.
3. Did I say to cut off contact yet?
4. If she does file a restraining order, you will have a firearms ban. This is a civil ban AND IS NOT CRIMINAL. You will not be able to own, use or posses a personal firearm while the order is active. THERE IS AN EXCEPTION for carrying weapons "while in the service of the united states". If she gets a restraining order, (which the police probably told her to do) it WILL NOT prevent military service. (It can for a clearance though, see number 8).
5. If you get convicted of violating said restraining order, you now will have a domestic violence CRIMINAL CONVICTION whether you were technically "violent" or not. Now you have a lautenberg amendmant issue and cannot carry a firearm, at all, no exceptions. Your military career will be over before it starts.
6. If she files an order...GET AN ATTORNEY. I don't care how much it costs. You can fight a temporary restraining order fairly easy with good counsel. If you try to do it yourself and it turns into a permanent order, you will have a much bigger hurdle there.
7. Did I say cut off contact yet?
8. Be advised, that although a civil order will not prevent service, and isn't criminal, there is a question on the security clearance interview that asks "do you currently have an order of protection placed against you?". Answering yes will not automatically deny you a security clearance. It could possibly though. All officers have to have a clearance.
9. Just so were clear, there doesn't need to be charges filed for her to get a protection order. It is a lower burden of proof, and the judge just needs a "poponderence of evidence" which is almost always her story alone.
10. Whatever it was, let it go.
Last edited by ParalegalNCO1; 3 Days Ago at 04:47 PM.
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