News>Feature - Cadet candidate overcomes adversity to pursue leadership
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Cadet Candidate William Roe (right) studies algebra with fellow Cadet Candidates Eric Zielen-Ersing (center) and Nathan McMurphy Oct. 3, 2012. Air Force Academy Preparatory School students spend much of their time on academics and military and physical training. (U.S. Air Force photo/Carol Lawrence)
Cadet Candidate William Roe writes an essay in his English class Oct. 3, 2012. “I’ve never written so many essays,” Roe said about the class he loves. He is a native of Robinson, Texas. (U.S. Air Force photo/Carol Lawrence)
Cadet Candidate William Roe, second from left, jokes with fellow Air Force Academy Preparatory School students between classes Oct. 3, 2012. Roe, a native of Robinson, Texas, said they watch sports or play video games when not studying. (U.S. Air Force photo/Carol Lawrence)
Cadet Candidate William Roe said he is determined to make it work at the Academy. "I've been given this great opportunity," the Air Force Academy Preparatory School student said Oct. 3, 2012. "If I mess up, I have nothing." (U.S. Air Force photo/Carol Lawrence)
10/4/2012 - U.S. AIR FORCE ACADEMY, Colo. -- Home has never been where 18-year old William Roe's heart is.
A cadet candidate at the Academy's Preparatory School, Roe hopes to one day be an officer in the Air Force and has found his key strength through his education to get where he is today: from being hungry and living out of his mother's car at age six to being a step away from attending one of the most prestigious institutions in the nation, the Air Force Academy.
Originally from Robinson, Texas, Roe grew up in a low-income household amid continual drug abuse and hardship.
"Over the course of my life, my family hadn't done a whole lot to contribute to society in a positive way," Roe said. "My dad went to prison, my mom tried to overdose a handful of times, and my brothers got in a lot of trouble."
When Roe was just an infant, his father manufactured methamphetamine in their home. The house was eventually raided, and his father was sent to jail, leaving Roe, his mother and siblings on their own.
"My mom had a really hard time supporting us," Roe said. "I can remember times when she would put us in the car and tell us we were going somewhere, drive until we fell asleep and then we'd wake up in the car the next morning. I guess she just didn't have the heart to tell us that we didn't have anywhere to go."
At age 12, Roe began work for a local landscaping company to help pay the family's bills and set aside money for when he wanted to purchase things such as school pictures, yearbooks or field trips.
"I'm not going to say it was an enjoyable experience, but now that I'm older and not doing it anymore I'm pretty proud of it," Roe said. "If I hadn't gone through some of things I went through as a kid, I don't think I would have the level of maturity and mental toughness that I have today."
Roe said he doesn't remember a time when his family wasn't on food stamps, welfare or unemployment. He said there were several occasions where he and his brothers were separated from their mother and sent to live with distant relatives because they didn't have a place to sleep.
By age 15, Roe decided to no longer live at home, often times sleeping in the locker room at his high school, staying with friends or sleeping in the car he purchased after working a full-time job for eight months.
"A lot of people when they think homeless, they think of standing on the street corner with a cardboard sign, and that wasn't the situation at all," Roe said. "I was always welcome to come home, but it wasn't an environment where I could focus on my studies and not get into trouble."
Roe's brothers had all dropped out of school and became addicted to drugs.
"I saw my brothers get in trouble with drugs, dealing and fighting," Roe said. "I love my brothers, but as I got older, I realized that I wanted to be better and didn't want to follow in their footsteps."
Roe said he didn't always eat, especially the nights he slept in the locker room. He would skip dinner and wait until the next morning for his free breakfast at school.
"Kids would anonymously leave me food. I never felt bad accepting it because it's nice to know whether you talk about your life or not, people are willing to look after you," Roe said.
At age 16, Roe lived with his grandmother for a short period of time and faced further hardship when she was instantly killed in a car accident he witnessed on his way to her house.
"After the accident, I happened to be driving on the highway and recognized her truck," Roe said. "Being the one who lived with her and being close to the accident, I had to inform everyone what had happened. It's hard when you have to tell your mother that her mother had passed away over something so spontaneous."
Despite not always having a home, food or family members who cared about him, Roe said he always looked toward the future and found motivation and support through individuals and activities at school.
"School was the one place I was really comfortable," Roe said. "I had a great network of friends. I couldn't imagine being in this position if I hadn't gone to Robinson High School. The staff members went above and beyond to make sure I was successful and a lot of them gave me a place to stay."
Roe was the vice president of his senior class, a leader in National Honor Society, and homecoming king. He volunteered regularly to help tutor kids.
"I made an effort to become best friends with the people that I wanted to model my life after," Roe said. "I've aimed high in everything that I do so that one day, when I have my own family, I can provide for them and my kids will never have to go through the same things I went through."
Roe also participated in sports: football, power-lifting, cross-country, track and soccer.
"I actually got recognized for doing the most sports in high school," Roe said. "It was constructive, a huge stress reliever and helped me get my mind off my family."
Upon high school graduation, Roe received a full-ride scholarship from Texas A&M as well as a $20,000 scholarship from the Horatio Alger Scholar Foundation. Through the foundation, Roe took a trip to Washington, D.C., and met influential figures such as Supreme Court Justice, Clarence Thomas and actor Rob Lowe.
"I was one of 104 selected from 50,000 applicants," Roe said. "I met these incredible people and we had a formal induction ceremony inside the Supreme Court building. When the scholars walked down the aisle among all of these successful people who came from similar backgrounds as us and were successful, had respect for us and shook our hands when we walked passed them, that was the most incredible moment of my entire life. So far nothing has compared to that."
Roe said he applied to the Academy because he appreciates the structure of the military and thinks he could use his leadership potential if he became a second lieutenant.
"The more I looked into it, the more I wanted to be a part of the Air Force," Roe said. "I'm attracted to the wingman concept and appreciate that everyone is held to a higher standard and responsible for their actions. If they act out, they'll be punished for it. I love that aspect."
Although Roe wasn't accepted into the Academy, he said he chose to spend a year at the Prep School because he knew he would receive solid preparation to lead men and women if he were to become an officer.
"There were thousands of people who competed just for a spot in the Prep School and only 240 people got in," Roe said. "I wasn't a recruit, my ACT scores weren't very high but I got here on my ability to overcome adversity. I now have my own bed, get to shower every night and I don't have to worry about my clothes not looking as nice as everyone else's because we're all in uniform. Every day I wake up and think about how awesome this opportunity is and I'm extremely grateful to be here."
Roe came to Colorado Springs not knowing a single person until he stepped off the plane and was approached by a complete stranger at the airport.
"This woman approached me and started to ask me questions," Roe said. "I didn't want to tell her much because I didn't know her but she proceeded to tell me that she was a sponsor for two cadets at the Academy."
Roe said she offered him a place to stay for the night but he initially declined. He said it wasn't until she mentioned what she was cooking for dinner that evening that made him change his mind.
"I was extremely hungry and I honestly knew I probably wouldn't be able to eat that night because I didn't have enough money," Roe said. "I went home with her and the steak fajitas turned out to be terrific."
It was then when Roe found his sponsor family: Col. Rob Widmann, retired Lt. Col. Ida Widmann and their two sons, Robert and Alex.
"Not only was I able to eat that night but I was blessed enough to have met her and now I have people who are willing to look out for me," Roe said.
Roe plays on the Prep School's soccer team and said as much as he would love to play for the Academy someday, only time will tell.
"I wanted to play soccer my whole life and can recall being seven, eight and nine years old asking if I could join the team and my parents would never let me," Roe said. "That's why I only played in high school. I would definitely like to join the track team at the Academy and would probably participate in long jump, high jump or triple jump."
Roe said it will be the hardest yet most fantastic decision of his life when he is forced to choose whether to pursue the Academy or attend Texas A&M at the end of the year.
"I have to pray about it, and it will come down to, 'Do I want to serve my country or attend grad school?'" Roe said. "I'd really like to go to grad school because it's something not a lot of people achieve in their lifetime but it would also be a high honor to attend the Academy. I feel fortunate to have the option of two great schools."
Roe said he only shares his story with few because he doesn't want pity.
"I haven't shared my story with many here because I wouldn't want it to compromise their view of me," Roe said. "We're here at the same time and all worked hard to get here and I want to be treated the same as anyone else."
Roe said by seeing much of the reality of life, it brings him motivation to be grateful for every opportunity that comes is way.
"A lot of the stuff I went through as a kid, I know a lot of people would have succumb to," Roe said. "All I can say is I did a good job avoiding negative influences and dedicated a lot of my time to making sure I was doing the right thing."
Roe said he holds no resentment against his family. He said he loves his brothers and has always been a mama's boy.
"I don't want to hold anything against anybody," Roe said. "What happened, happened and I can affect what happens to me now that I'm on my own," Roe said. "I've worked tremendously hard in my life and I don't like to look back on it because I put my heart and soul into getting to this point in my life."
Comments
10/11/2012 11:52:29 AM ET As a Prep School Class of 1983 and USAFA Class of 1987 alumnus I was especially moved by this Preppie's story. While I recognize that he is tremendously grateful for having the opportunity to compete to attend the Academy my sentiment is that the AFA would be fortunate to have him as a cadet. Best Wishes and Godspeed
EJ Hunter, Montgomery AL
10/11/2012 1:49:27 AM ET Hang in there buddy.
Cougar, USA
10/10/2012 7:54:19 PM ET Military lifestyle and service to Country is about facing adversity and overcoming it to achieve success on the battlefield and in everyday struggles. The Air Force would be wise in paying special consideration to this young man's aptitude for survival and his preservation of integrity under pressure. It appears he has the fiber similarly found throughout our long blue line of officers who distinguish themselves when matched against an enemy. I expect to read more about you in the years to come William Roe as you lead others toward a very bright future.
Dan St. Clair USAFA '96, Dallas Texas
10/10/2012 7:50:56 PM ET I am very impressed with his commitment and unstoppable attitude. Wish the country was full of people like him.
Dave Morgan, Dallas TX
10/6/2012 7:38:16 AM ET The future of our Air Force is in great hands with young men and women like CadetCandidate Roe
Kabrena Rodda, Colorado Springs
10/5/2012 5:49:38 PM ET An amazing story an amazing young man and a Texan to boot Very inspiring...... thanks for sharing
Lynne Underwood, Colleyville TX
10/5/2012 3:29:23 PM ET Truly amazing story -- I'm very proud to have this guy in my squadron
