Who Is a Caregiver?
This booklet is for you if you are helping your loved one get through cancer treatment. You are a
"caregiver." You may not think of yourself as a caregiver. You may see what you're doing as
something natural - taking care of someone you love.
There are different types of caregivers. Some are family members, while others are friends. Every
situation is different. So there are different ways to give care. There isn't one way that works best.
Caregiving can mean helping with day-to-day activities such as doctor visits or preparing food. But
it can also happen long-distance. You may have to coordinate care and services for your loved one
by phone. Caregiving can also mean giving emotional and spiritual support. You may be helping
your loved one cope and work through the many feelings that come up at this time. Talking,
listening, and just being there are some of the most important things you can do.
Giving care and support during this challenging time isn't easy. The natural response of most
caregivers is to put their own feelings and needs aside. They try to focus on the person with cancer
and the many tasks of caregiving. This may be fine for a short time. But it can be hard to keep up for
a long time. And it's not good for your health. If you don't take care of yourself, you won't be able to
take care of others. It's important for everyone that you give care to you.
"I think you can be the best
caregiver you can be by
taking care of yourself, by
trying to get as much
information as possible,
and by letting yourself lean
on the people who are
willing to help you."
- Leneice
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