Introduce issue in neutral inquiring manner. |
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When dealing with a serious illness, many people draw on religious or spiritual beliefs to help cope. It would be helpful to me to know how you feel about this. |
Inquire further, adjusting inquiry to patient’s initial response. |
Positive-Active Faith Response |
What have you found most helpful about your beliefs since your illness? |
Neutral-Receptive Response |
How might you draw on your faith or spiritual beliefs to help you? |
Spiritually Distressed Response (e.g., expression of anger or guilt) |
Many people feel that way…what might help you come to terms with this? |
Defensive/Rejecting Response |
It sounds like you’re uncomfortable that I brought this up. What I’m really interested in is how you are coping…can you tell me about that? |
Continue to explore further as indicated. |
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I see. Can you tell me more (about….)? |
Inquire about ways of finding meaning and a sense of peace. |
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Is there some way in which you are able to find a sense of meaning or peace in the midst of this? |
Inquire about resources. |
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Whom do you have to talk to about this/these concerns? |
Offer assistance as appropriate and available. |
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Perhaps we can arrange for you to talk to someone./There’s a support group I can suggest./There are some reading materials in the waiting room. |
Bring inquiry to a close. |
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I appreciate you discussing these issues with me. May I ask about it again? |