Differences between mild forgetfulness and more serious memory problems

Jeanne’s story:

Jeanne couldn’t find her car keys. She looked on the hook just inside the front door. They weren’t there. She searched in her purse. No luck. Finally, she found them on her desk. Yesterday, she forgot her neighbor’s name. Her memory was playing tricks on her. She was starting to worry about it. She decided to see her doctor. After a complete check-up, her doctor said that Jeanne was fine. Her forgetfulness was just a normal part of getting older. The doctor suggested that Jeanne take a class, play cards with friends, or help out at the local school to sharpen her memory.

What is mild forgetfulness?

It is true that some of us get more forgetful as we age. It may take longer to learn new things, remember familiar names and words, or find our glasses. These are usually signs of mild forgetfulness, not serious memory problems.

If you’re worried about your forgetfulness, see your doctor. You also can do many things to help keep your memory sharp. Finding a hobby, spending time with friends, eating well, and exercising may help you stay alert and clear-headed.

Here are some ways to help your memory:

• Learn a new skill.
• Volunteer in your community, school, or place of worship.
• Spend time with friends and family whenever possible.
• Use memory tools such as big calendars, to-do lists, and notes to yourself.
• Put your wallet or purse, keys, and glasses in the same place each day.
• Get lots of rest.
• Exercise and eat well.
• Don’t drink a lot of alcohol.
• Get help if you feel depressed for weeks at a time.

Spending time with friends and family may help keep your memory sharp.

What is a serious memory problem?

Getting lost in a place you know well may be a sign of a serious memory problem.

Serious memory problems affect your ability to carry out everyday life activities such as driving a car, shopping, or handling money. Signs of serious memory problems may include:

Getting lost in a place you know well may be a sign of a serious memory problem.

• Asking the same questions over and over again.
• Becoming lost in places. you know well.
• Not being able to followdirections.
• Getting very confused about time, people, and places.
• Not taking care of yourself — eating poorly, not bathing, or being unsafe.
  

 What to do about serious memory problems

If you are having any of the problems listed above, see your doctor. It’s important to find out what might be causing a serious memory problem. Your treatment depends on the cause of the problem.