Looking for Meaning
At different times in life, it's natural for people to look for
meaning in their lives. And many people with recurrent
cancer find this search for meaning important. They want to
understand their purpose in life. They often reflect on what
they have gone through. Some look for a sense of peace or a
bond with others. Some seek to forgive themselves or others
for past actions. Some look for answers and strength through
religion or spirituality.
Being spiritual means different things to different people.
It's a very personal issue. Everyone has their own beliefs
about the meaning of life. Some people find it through
religion or faith. Some find it by teaching or through
volunteer work. Others find it in other ways. Having cancer
may cause you to think about what you believe - about God,
an afterlife, or the connections between living things. This
can bring a sense of peace, a lot of questions, or both.
You may have already given a lot of thought to these issues.
Still, you might find comfort by exploring more deeply what
is meaningful to you. You could do this with someone close
to you, a member of your faith or spiritual community, a
counselor, or a trusted friend. Or
you may find that talking to others
at gatherings and services at places
of worship is helpful.
"I really struggled with my
diagnosis. I couldn't understand
why I had to go through this one
more time. Although I wouldn't
consider myself religious, I found
that prayer helped me. I began to
understand that I had a purpose
in life, and that the cancer was
just part of the plan." - Bill |
Or you may just want to take time for yourself. You may want
to reflect on your experiences and relationships. Writing in a
journal or reading also helps some people find comfort and
meaning. Others find that prayer or meditation helps them.
Many people also find that cancer changes their values.
The things you own and your daily duties may seem less
important. You may decide to spend more time with loved
ones or helping others. You may want to do more things
outdoors or learn something new.
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