two friends holding hands It is normal as a teen to want to fit in with friends and other kids at school – and friendships are an important part of life! You may be frustrated that you have to deal with a condition that others don’t have to deal with and do things differently. It’s okay to feel frustrated, but try to focus on the things that you do have in common with others. You’ll find that you are more alike than you are different. An illness or disability is a part of you, but it doesn’t define who you are. It also won’t stop you from having caring friends who accept you for who you are.

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Make sure close friends know how to help you in an emergency. Tell them how to know you are in trouble, such as if you are gasping for air during an asthma attack. Give them any special instructions on how to help you, if this applies to your condition. Tell your friends to call 911 if you are alone, or tell a teacher, school nurse or other adult when at school.

If you have to be away from school and your friends, you might worry that you can’t be a good friend. But your time away doesn’t make you a bad friend at all. It stinks to feel like you are missing out, but it is so much more important to get the care you need...and your friends will be there when you get back! Read more about hospital visits and dealing with friendships.

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