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Bullying

Two boys picking on a girl Boys bullying girls

Boys bully in some of the same ways as girls, such as name-calling and spreading rumors. But boys bully girls in other ways too. An example is a group of boys rating girls on their looks as they walk through the hall between classes. All of these different types of bullying take a toll on a girl's self-esteem and, like other forms of bullying, can leave emotional scars for years to come.

"At the end of the eighth grade my parents decided I would benefit from a high-profile Catholic school in a wealthy area of town," a teenager recounts.

"I was sent to this school not knowing a single person. My first day in English class started it all. Kevin was a boy in my class who sensed my insecurity and nervousness right from the start. He made up this rumor that I was a lesbian. From that day on, he and his friend taunted me, shoved me into lockers, tripped me in the halls, embarrassed me and kept me miserable. Teachers picked up on it and always punished them, which made it worse because they would make up some new rumor about me. One day I went to school and found out they had been suspended. It turned out that I hadn't been the only girl who had been bullied by these boys. A brave girl had reported them to the principal and the boys were suspended for sexual harassment."

Source: Facing the Schoolyard Bully by Kim Zarzour

Content last updated June 25, 2008

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Office on Women's Health.

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