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The Healthy Marriage Initiative (HMI)

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General Information

“To encourage marriage and promote the well-being of children, I have proposed a healthy marriage initiative to help couples develop the skills and knowledge to form and sustain healthy marriages. Research has shown that, on average, children raised in households headed by married parents fare better than children who grow up in other family structures. Through education and counseling programs, faith-based, community, and government organizations promote healthy marriages and a better quality of life for children. By supporting responsible child-rearing and strong families, my Administration is seeking to ensure that every child can grow up in a safe and loving home.”   — President George W. Bush

Background

In 1996 Congress made the following findings [1]:

Marriage is the foundation of a successful society.

Marriage is an essential institution of a successful society which promotes the interests of children.

In order to encourage States to strengthen marriages,

The Deficit Reduction Act of 2005 provides funding of $150 million each year for healthy marriage promotion and fatherhood. Key requirements of the law specify that:

Funds may be used for competitive research and demonstration projects to test promising approaches to encourage healthy marriages and promote involved, committed, and responsible fatherhood by public and private entities and also for providing technical assistance to States and Tribes.

  • Applicants for funds must commit to consult with experts in domestic violence; applications must describe how programs will address issues of domestic violence and ensure that participation is voluntary.
  • Healthy marriage promotion awards must be used for eight specified activities, including marriage education, marriage skills training, public advertising campaigns, high school education on the value of marriage and marriage mentoring programs.
  • Not more than $50 million each year may be used for activities promoting fatherhood, such as counseling, mentoring, marriage education, enhancing relationship skills, parenting, and activities to foster economic stability.

Mission Statement

To help couples, who have chosen marriage for themselves, gain greater access to marriage education services, on a voluntary basis, where they can acquire the skills and knowledge necessary to form and sustain a healthy marriage.

What is a “healthy marriage?"

There are at least two characteristics that all healthy marriages have in common. First, they are mutually enriching, and second, both spouses have a deep respect for each other.

It is a mutually satisfying relationship that is beneficial to the husband, wife and children (if present).

It is a relationship that is committed to ongoing growth, the use of effective communication skills and the use of successful conflict management skills.

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Goals

  • Increase the percentage of children who are raised by two parents in a healthy marriage.
  • Increase the percentage of married couples who are in healthy marriages.
  • Increase the percentage of premarital couples who are equipped with the skills and knowledge necessary to form and sustain a healthy marriage.
  • Increase the percentage of youth and young adults who have the skills and knowledge to make informed decisions about healthy relationships including skills that can help them eventually form and sustain a healthy marriage.
  • Increase public awareness about the value of healthy marriages and the skills and knowledge that can help couples form and sustain healthy marriages.
  • Encourage and support research on healthy marriages and healthy marriage education.
  • Increase the percentage of women, men and children in homes that are free of domestic violence.

 

Allowable Activities

  • Public advertising campaigns on the value of healthy marriages and the skills needed to increase marital stability and the health of the marriage.
  • Education in high schools on the value of healthy marriages, healthy relationship skills, and budgeting.
  • Marriage education, marriage skills, and relationship skills programs, that may include parenting skills, financial management, conflict resolution, and job and career advancement, for expectant couples, both married and unmarried, as well as recent parents, both married and unmarried.
  • Pre-marital education and marriage skills training for engaged couples and for couples or individuals interested in marriage.
  • Marriage enhancement and marriage skills training programs for married couples.
  • Divorce reduction programs that teach healthy relationship skills.
  • Marriage mentoring programs which use married couples as role models and mentors in at-risk communities.
  • Programs to reduce the disincentives to marriage in means-tested aid programs, if offered in conjunction with any activity described above.
  • Conduct research on the benefits of healthy marriages and healthy marriage education.
  • Provide technical assistance to grantees who are implementing any of the above activities to help them succeed.

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The ACF Healthy Marriage Initiative is Not About:

  • Coercing anyone to marry or remain in unhealthy relationships.
  • Withdrawing supports from single parents, or diminishing, either directly or indirectly, the important work of single parents.
  • Stigmatizing those who choose divorce.
  • Limiting access to divorce.
  • Promoting the initiative as a panacea for achieving positive outcomes for child and family well-being.
  • Running a federal dating service.
  • An immediate solution to lifting all families out of poverty.


[1] Section 101 of Pub. L. 104 - 193

Benefits of Healthy Marriages

For Children and Youth

Researchers have found many benefits for children and youth who are raised by parents in healthy marriages, compared to unhealthy marriages, including the following:

  1. More likely to attend college
  2. More likely to succeed academically
  3. Physically healthier
  4. Emotionally healthier
  5. Less likely to attempt or commit suicide
  6. Demonstrate less behavioral problems in school
  7. Less likely to be a victim of physical or sexual abuse
  8. Less likely to abuse drugs or alcohol
  9. Less likely to commit delinquent behaviors
  10. Have a better relationship with their mothers and fathers
  11. Decreases their chances of divorcing when they get married
  12. Less likely to become pregnant as a teenager, or impregnate someone.
  13. Less likely to be sexually active as teenagers
  14. Less likely to contract STD's
  15. Less likely to be raised in poverty
For Women

Researchers have found many benefits for women who are in healthy marriages, compared to unhealthy marriages, including the following:

  1. More satisfying relationship
  2. Emotionally healthier
  3. Wealthier
  4. Less likely to be victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, or other violent crimes
  5. Less likely to attempt or commit suicide
  6. Decrease risk of drug and alcohol abuse
  7. Less likely to contract STD's
  8. Less likely to remain or end up in poverty
  9. Have better relationships with their children
  10. Physically healthier
For Men

Researchers have found many benefits for men who are in healthy marriages, compared to unhealthy marriages, including the following:

  1. Live longer
  2. Physically healthier
  3. Wealthier
  4. Increase in the stability of employment
  5. Higher wages
  6. Emotionally healthier
  7. Decrease risk of drug and alcohol abuse
  8. Have better relationships with their children
  9. More satisfying sexual relationship
  10. Less likely to commit violent crimes
  11. Less likely to contract STD's
  12. Less likely to attempt or commit suicide
For Communities

Researchers have found many benefits for communities when they have a higher percentage of couples in healthy marriages, compared to unhealthy marriages, including the following:

  1. Higher rates of physically healthy citizens
  2. Higher rates of emotionally healthy citizens
  3. Higher rates of educated citizens
  4. Lower domestic violence rates
  5. Lower crime statistics
  6. Lower teen age pregnancy rates
  7. Lower rates of juvenile delinquency
  8. Higher rates of home ownership
  9. Lower rates of migration
  10. Higher property values
  11. Decreased need for social services

[Source: Why Marriage Matters, Second Edition: Twenty-Six Conclusions from the Social Sciences, September 2005.]

"Also see What Is a Healthy Marriage? Kristin Anderson Moore; Susan M. Jekielek; Jacinta Bronte-Tinkew; Lina Guzman; Suzanne Ryan; Zakia Redd. September 2004."

 

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