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Parenting With Love and Limits®

Ages 10-18

Rating: Level 1

Intervention

Parenting with Love and Limits® (PLL) integrates group and family therapy into one system of care for adolescent populations with the primary diagnosis of oppositional defiant or conduct disorder. Parents and teens learn specific skills in group therapy and then meet in individual family therapy to role-play and practice these new skills. This integration of group and family therapy enables parents to transfer these new skills to real-life situations and prevent relapse.

During group therapy, teens and parents participate together in a small group, led by two facilitators, that can also include siblings and extended family. The groups consist of no more than six families and no more than 15 people total per group. Six 2-hour classes are held weekly. Parents and teens meet together as a group for the 1st hour. During the 2nd hour, the parents meet in one breakout group with one facilitator leading each breakout and the teens meet in another. During family therapy, teens and parents meet individually with one of the group facilitators in between classes in an intensive 1- to 2-hour session to practice the new skills learned in group. Extensive role-plays are used along with the development of a typed-out, loophole-free contract. Three to four family therapy sessions are recommended for low- to moderate-risk adolescents and up to 20 sessions for moderate- to high-risk offenders within an outpatient or home-based setting.

The Parenting with Love and Limits® system of care is comprised of 6 group sessions plus 3 or more family therapy sessions, as shown below:

  • Group Session 1. Understanding Why Your Teen Misbehaves: Parents learn why their teen commit acts of parent abuse. Parents and teens go into their respective breakout groups to vent their feelings.
  • Group Session 2. Button-Pushing: Parents learn how their teen pushes their hot buttons (whining, disgusted look, swearing, etc.), and teens learn how parents push theirs (lecturing, criticizing, talking in chapters, etc.).
  • First PLL Family Therapy Session - Parents and teens meet individually to practice anti-button-pushing strategies.
  • Group Session 3. Ironclad Contracting: Parents learn how and why their old methods of contracting have failed, as well as the steps to assemble a contract that works. Teens meet in their breakout groups to help write their own contract.
  • Second PLL Family Therapy Session - Parents and teens meet individually to create their own contract.
  • Group Session 4. Troubleshooting: Parents learn how teens have a special ability called “enhanced social perception” to think two steps ahead.
  • Third PLL Family Therapy Session - Parents and teens meet individually to review their contracts and troubleshoot any loopholes. Extensive role plays are used to practice delivery of rewards and consequences.
  • Group Session 5. Stopping the Seven Aces: Parents choose creative consequences to stop the seven “aces” of disrespect, ditching or failing school, running away, drugs or alcohol, sexual promiscuity, violence, and threats of suicide.
  • Fourth PLL Family Therapy Session - Parents and teens meet individually to review their progress.
  • Group Session 6. Reclaiming Lost Love: Parents learn to understand how conflict hinders the parent–child relationship and strategies to repair it.
  • Fifth PLL Family Therapy Session and Beyond as Needed - Parents and teens begin to solidify nurturance as well as address any underlying family dysfunction.

In both group and family therapy counselors are provided with detailed treatment manuals and the parents and teenagers with workbooks.

Evaluation

This program has undergone two evaluation studies. The first used a pretest–posttest design with a sample of 102 adolescents and 93 parents who together attended the 6-week program. The adolescents ranged in age from 9 to 18, with the average participant 15. Each participant was diagnosed with substance abuse and a comorbid diagnosis of either oppositional defiant or conduct disorder. Eighty-two percent of the adolescents were white. Males accounted for 57 percent of the sample. All adolescents were court-ordered and drug-tested to determine a baseline rate of substance abuse. In addition, these adolescents committed a wide variety of concurrent offenses, with the most commonly occurring offense being shoplifting (22.5 percent). The Adolescent SASSI questionnaire was administered to the 93 adolescents before they began the first class and again after the last parenting class was completed. To assess for change following program participation, paired sample t–tests were conducted for each subscale of the SASSI. Recidivism or relapse rates for all 93 adolescents who completed the program were measured through juvenile court records. Re-arrest records for substance abuse or conduct-related problems such as shoplifting were obtained for all 93 adolescents 6 months after the completion of the parenting program and then again 12 months following program completion.

The second study used an experimental design with a matched control group. A sample of 38 adolescents and their parents randomly either were assigned into the treatment program (n=19) or received the traditional juvenile probation services (n=19) such as outpatient counseling or community service. Participants were roughly matched before being assigned to a group based on type of offense, gender, age, and socioeconomic status. The measures used in the study included the Child Behavior Checklist (CBCL), the Index of Parental Attitudes, the Parent Adolescent Communication Scale, and the Parent Readiness Scale. Both the parents and adolescents in the treatment group received the pretest measures in an interview before the treatment and again immediately following the final class.

Outcome

Overall, the results of the treatment intervention are promising. In the first study, the analyses indicate that parents’ participation in adolescents’ treatment of substance abuse and severe behavioral problems can have a positive impact on program effectiveness. One key indicator was that adolescents’ self-reported substance use dropped significantly. Even though the adolescents’ attitudes and defensiveness toward drugs or alcohol did not significantly change, their use of substances did. This was demonstrated both by the statistically significant changes on the adolescents’ SASSI scores and by the fact that 85 percent did not relapse over the course of an entire year following treatment.

In the second study, the Parenting With Love and Limits® treatment group demonstrated (compared with the control group) a significant reduction in aggressive behaviors, depression, attention deficit disorder problems, and externalizing problems as measured by the CBCL. In addition, compared with the controls, the Parenting With Love and Limits® treatment group significantly improved parent and adolescent communication and decreased mothers’ negative attitudes and perceptions about their adolescents. (In general, fathers did not come to the treatment or the youth was from a single-parent home). Finally, compared with the controls, the recidivism of the treatment group significantly reduced (16 percent to 55 percent) over a 12-month period.

Risk Factors

Individual

  • Anti-social behavior and alienation/Delinquent beliefs/General delinquency involvement/Drug dealing
  • Early onset of aggression and/or violence
  • Favorable attitudes toward drug use/Early onset of AOD use/Alcohol and/or drug use
  • Life stressors
  • Mental disorder/Mental health problem/Conduct disorder

Family

  • Broken home
  • Child victimization and maltreatment
  • Family management problems/Poor parental supervision and/or monitoring
  • Family transitions
  • Family violence
  • Having a young mother
  • Low parent education level/Illiteracy
  • Parental use of physical punishment/Harsh and/or erratic discipline practices
  • Pattern of high family conflict
  • Poor family attachment/Bonding
  • Sibling antisocial behavior

School

  • Dropping out of school
  • Low academic achievement
  • Low academic aspirations
  • School suspensions
  • Truancy/Frequent absences

Peer

  • Association with delinquent and/or aggressive peers

Protective Factors

Individual

  • Healthy / Conventional beliefs and clear standards
  • Perception of social support from adults and peers
  • Positive / Resilient temperament
  • Positive expectations / Optimism for the future
  • Social competencies and problem-solving skills

Family

  • Effective parenting
  • Good relationships with parents / Bonding or attachment to family
  • Having a stable family
  • Opportunities for prosocial family involvement
  • Rewards for prosocial family involvement

School

  • High quality schools / Clear standards and rules
  • Presence and involvement of caring, supportive adults
  • Rewards for prosocial school involvement

Community

  • Presence and involvement of caring, supportive adults
  • Prosocial opportunities for participation / Availability of neighborhood resources

Peer

  • Parental approval of friends

References

Sells, Scott P., Smith, Thomas Edward, Rodman, J. (2006). “Reducing Substance Abuse through Parenting With Love and Limits.” Journal of Child and Adolescent Substance Abuse (15):105-115.

Sells, Scott P. (2004). “Undercurrents: When therapy stalls, it's usually time to look for the family secrets,” Psychotherapy Networker 28(6):75-81.

Sells, Scott P. (2001). Parenting Your Out-of-Control Teenager. New York: St. Martin’s Press.

Sells, Scott P. 1998. “Process-Outcome Research and the Family-Based Model: Refining and Operationalizing Key Theoretical Concepts.” In Scott P. Sells. Treating the Tough Adolescent: A Family-Based Step-by-Step Guide. New York, N.Y.: Guilford Press, 259–92.

Sells, Scott P., Smith, Thomas Edward, & Newfield, N. (1997). “Teaching Ethnographies in Social Work: A Model Course.” Journal of Social Work Education 33(1):1-18.

Sells, Scott P., Smith, Thomas Edward, & Moon, S. (1996). “An Ethnographic Study of Client and Therapist Perceptions of Therapy Effectiveness in a University-Based Training Clinic.” Journal of Marital and Family Therapy 22(3):321-343.

Sells, Scott P., Newfield, N, Smith, Thomas Edward, & Newfield, S (1996). “Ethnographic Research Methods.” In D.H. Sprenkle & S.M. Moon (Eds.) Handbook of Family Therapy Research Methods. New York: Guilford Press.

Sells, Scott P., Thomas Edward Smith, and Douglas H. Sprenkle. 1995. “Integrating Quantitative and Qualitative Methods: A Research Model.” Family Process 34:199–218.

Sells, Scott P., Smith, Thomas Edward, & Clevenger, T. (1994). “Ethnographic Content Analysis of Couple and Therapist Perceptions in a Reflecting Team Setting.“ Journal of Marital and Family Therapy 20(3):267-286.

Sells, Scott P., Smith, Thomas Edward, Coe, M. J., Yoshioka, M., & Robbins, J. (1994). “An Ethnography of Couple and Therapist Experiences in Reflecting Team Practice.” Journal of Marital and Family Therapy 20(3):247-266.

Sells, Scott P., and Thomas Edward Smith. (In press). Manuscript submitted for publication. Journal of Social Work.

Smith, Thomas Edward, Sells, S. P., Pereira, G. A., Todahl, J., & Papagiannis, G. (1995) “Interpersonal Process Recall.” Journal of Family Psychotherapy 6(2):49-70.

Smith, Thomas Edward, Jenkins, D. A., & Sells, S. P. (1995) “Reflecting Teams: Voices of Diversity.” Journal of Family Psychotherapy 6(2):49-70.

Smith, Thomas Edward, Scott P. Sells, Jeffrey Rodman, and Lisa Rene Reynolds. (In press). “Reducing Adolescent Substance Abuse and Delinquency: Pilot Research of a Family-Oriented Psycho-Education Curriculum.” Journal of Child and Adolescent Substance Abuse.

Contact

Scott P. Sells, Ph.D.
Savannah Family Institute, Inc.
P.O. Box 30381
Savannah, GA 31410-0381
Phone: (912) 224-3999
Fax: (770) 573-1128
E-mail: spsells@gopll.com
Web site: http://www.gopll.com

Technical Assistance Provider

Diana L. Bala, MA, PCC, NCC
Savannah Family Institute, Inc.
P.O. Box 30381
Savannah, GA 31410-0381
Phone: (330) 630-9223
Fax: (330) 630-9226
E-mail: diana@gopll.com
Web site: http://www.gopll.com