[NIFL-FAMILY:1045] Re: Parents as first teachers (long)

From: Virginia Tardaewether (tarv@exchange.chemeketa.edu)
Date: Tue Apr 30 2002 - 15:24:20 EDT


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Sylvan and others
ANy idea how we can get working with parents/adults in your classroom
included in teacher training?

Virginia Tardaewether 

Chemeketa {Place of Peace} 
Outreach Instructor 
Dallas, OR  97338 

tarv@chemeketa.edu
503-316-3242 



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From: Sylvan Rainwater [mailto:sylvan@cccchs.org]
Sent: Tuesday, April 30, 2002 11:33 AM
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Subject: [NIFL-FAMILY:1043] Re: Parents as first teachers (long)


At 04:44 PM 04/25/2002 -0400, Virginia Tardaewether wrote:
>Why does a teacher have to go into another performance mode....?  Can't a
>child have multiple parents and can't multiple adults help rear a child?

Sure, but it is a skill that has to be learned, by both teachers and 
parents. We want to partner with parents, but some of us are easier at it 
than others. We hired an excellent infant/toddler teacher who was 
absolutely great with the kids, but had little experience working directly 
with parents (she had worked for Migrant Head Start as a classroom teacher 
only). In our program the teachers are also home visitors, and of course we 
have the parents go into the classrooms every day for PACT time. She had to 
learn, and we had to find ways to support her in that learning.

I saw that territoriality operating with her and have also seen it with 
some other teachers. It is largely unconscious. You work hard to set up 
your room to optimize learning, and then other people come in and end up 
being an unknown factor in the carefully orchestrated equation. If you are 
only factoring in kids, and an adult comes into the room, it is disruptive. 
If that adult is also evaluating you, whether as a parent or as an 
employer, it adds to the stress.

The trick is to make it all familiar -- having parents come into the room 
every day forces teachers to factor in adults to their performances. After 
a while it gets easier. But we shouldn't underestimate how difficult it can 
seem to someone who's not used to that. And I suspect (though I don't know 
for sure) that effective parent involvement is not something they teach in 
elementary ed classes, or other education classes.


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Sylvan Rainwater  .  sylvan@cccchs.org
Adult Education Teacher and Family Literacy Program Manager
Clackamas County Children's Commission  .  Oregon City, OR USA



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