If you are or think you might be a victim of domestic violence...
For Help With Your Own Safety Plan
The most important step you can take for yourself, if you are a victim of domestic violence, is to
build a safety plan to protect yourself from the abuser. When physical, emotional, or sexual
violence has occurred once in a relationship, it is likely to happen again. So you need to plan ahead
to protect yourself and your children. Since you know the abuser's actions and behaviors, you
should use this knowledge and plan ahead.
Here are some things to consider in your personal safety plan:
Warning Signs of Domestic Violence
The following are warning signs that could indicate that you are a victim or are becoming a victim
of domestic violence. Where we use the word "partner" we mean husband, wife, spouse, lover, or
whoever applies in your situation.
You may be at risk for domestic violence if your partner is doing any of the following things:
Please look at other information about actions domestic violence victims can take and to get information on agencies that can help you.
Please remember that no one has a right to hurt you, whether you drink alcohol, use other drugs, or are clean and sober. Domestic violence is a crime. Addiction is an illness. Unfortunately, both of these problems are difficult to talk about. Drinking and drug use, your own or another's, can make it hard for you to stay safe. It is important to realize violence is not caused by drinking and drugging, although that can lead to increased vulnerability. If you are in an abusive relationship and concerned about your own or another's alcohol or other drug use, you can receive information and reerrals 24 hours a day by calling Alcohol Drug Help Line. The number in the Seattle area is(206) 722-3700 or Statewide at 1-800-562-1240.
In King County, there are four shelters in confidential locations to serve battered women. There is also one shelter that primarily serves battered women and their children in a non-confidential but secure location. Victims of domestic violence should call individual shelters, since services and
intake procedures are different for each shelter.
In general, shelters offer:
Names and phone numbers of confidential shelters for battered women in King County are:
There are a number of organizations that provide a variety of community-based services and advocacy for victims of domestic violence and their children not living in shelters. Some agencies serve specific geographic areas, while others specialize in meeting individual needs of refugee women, gays and lesbians, deaf or hearing impaired women, Native American women, African American or Spanish-speaking women.
The services of community advocacy programs vary, but generally they include the following:
The following agencies serve specific geographic areas in King County:
The following agencies serve
all of King
County,
providing services for survivors of domestic violence:
The following agencies provide services to sexual assault victims:
If you are a victim of domestic violence, there are legal remedies designed to protect and help you.
If you are in immediate danger, please hang up and call 9-1-1.
Domestic violence is a serious crime. It is against the law in the State of Washington to commit
acts of domestic violence. If one family or household member hits, hurts, or seriously threatens
harm against another family or household member, a crime has been committed. Domestic violence
assaults can include such things as slapping, pushing, shoving, pinching, throwing a person down,
pulling hair, and other unwanted violent actions. You are also a domestic violence victim if you
have been verbally or physically threatened and are fearful of being hurt. It is a crime for someone
to violate a valid Order for Protection which a Court has issued to help protect you.
The term "family or household member" under the domestic violence law includes "spouses, former
spouses, persons who have a child in common regardless of whether they have been married or have
lived together at any time, adult persons related by blood or marriage, adult persons who are
presently residing together or who have resided together in the past, persons sixteen years of age or
older with whom a respondent sixteen years of age or older has or has had a dating relationship, and
persons who have a biological or legal parent-child relationship, including stepparents and
stepchildren and grandparents and grandchildren."
There are legal options for you as a victim of domestic violence. You have the right to expect help
and protection. Here are some things you can do:
A written report should be filled out by the police if they come to your house in response to
your call for help. A written report is required by law; be sure to insist that a report is
completed.
If the police believe they have probable cause to suspect that a person assaulted you within
the previous four-hour period, they are required to arrest the person who committed the assault.
This is the law.
If your abuser is arrested for or charged with a crime, you have the right to ask the police or
the prosecutor to obtain for you a criminal "No-Contact Order" which requires that the
abuser have no contact with you. This is provided by law.
The police are required by law to advise you about shelters and other services in your
community. They are supposed to tell you about your right to file for a civil court
order for your protection. Often they have a written notice about your legal rights
to give you. You can also ask for this information.
If you or your children are victims of domestic violence, that is, acts of violence, stalking, or threats
against you by a family or household member, you are likely to be eligible to apply for an Order for
Protection. This is a civil court order that restrains the person who has abused you from further acts
of violence or threats, by setting limits on that person's behavior.
You are eligible for an Order for Protection if you have experienced physical harm, bodily injury or
assault, or sexual assault. This is domestic violence if the person who harmed you is a family or
household member, defined by the law as "spouses, former spouses, persons who have a child in
common regardless of whether they have been married or have lived together at any time, adult
persons related by blood or marriage, adult persons who are presently residing together or who have
resided together in the past, persons sixteen years of age or older with whom a respondent sixteen
years of age or older has or has had a dating relationship, and persons who have a biological or legal
parent-child relationship, including stepparents and stepchildren and grandparents and
grandchildren."
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