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What is sexuality education?

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What is the role of parents?

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What do children need to know when?

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What is sexuality education?

Sexuality education is a lifelong process of acquiring information and forming attitudes, beliefs, and values about identity, relationships, and intimacy. It encompasses sexual development, reproductive health, interpersonal relationships, affection, intimacy, body image, and gender roles.

Why is sexuality education important?
  • so youth will approach puberty with excitement rather than dread.
  • so youth will appreciate their bodies and not engage in dangerous weight-management and cosmetic regimes.
  • so youth will be able to make and keep friends and communicate their needs and boundaries assertively.
  • so those who have been sexually abused will feel less alone, less to blame, and more inclined to report their abuse.
  • so youth will treat one another respectfully, regardless of their genders, sexual orientations, or any other personal characteristics, in class, between classes or on the playground, and when they date one another.
  • so youth will know how to reduce their risks of STDs (including HIV), unintended pregnancy, birth defects, infertility, dysfunction and other sexuality-related difficulties.
  • so youth will recognize the symptoms and be inclined to seek health care for these kinds of difficulties.
  • so youth will perform self breast- and testicular exams and seek routine preventive health care.
  • so youth will know where to find accurate information about sexual health as they grow and change throughout their lives.
What is the role of parents?

Parents can be one of the best educators on sexuality education. Schools provide background, parents provide values. Studies show that kids who feel they can talk with their parents about sex -- because their moms and dads speak openly and listen carefully to them -- are less likely to engage in high-risk behavior as teens than kids who do not feel they can talk with their parents about the subject.

What do children need to know when?

Information from Planned Parenthood:

How do I talk to my child about sexuality? 
How do I communicate my values?

The best way to transmit your values to your children is to model them AND to talk about them. Clearly stating you beliefs but respecting the existence of other beliefs helps kids to clarify and integrate their own beliefs.

  • Be clear about your own values.
  • Help children identify the difference between fact, fallacy, value.
  • Help children think critically and identify a range of beliefs.
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Updated: Wednesday, June 06, 2007 at 03:21 PM

All information is general in nature and is not intended to be used as a substitute for appropriate professional advice. For more information please call (206) 296-4600 (voice) or TTY Relay: 711. Mailing address: ATTN: Communications Team, Public Health - Seattle & King County, 401 5th Ave., Suite 1300, Seattle, WA 98104 or click here to email us.

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