Sex
Sex and relationship advice from the Guardian. Sexual health matters, sexuality, information and sex tips all discussed
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Dean Burnett: The new rules have baffled many but do they hold up to scientific scrutiny? Not really, no
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Passionate endings, fond farewells, sad separations or stimulating solitude, name songs that capture or reflect on a moment when two or more people are parted, says Peter Kimpton
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Adam Sandler plays a porn-addicted husband in this spirited attempt to capture the essence of modern digital life, writes Peter Bradshaw
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Booker winner beats distinguished peers to clinch Literary Review award on strength of passage from The Age of Magic
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I have never shared the romantic connection I feel is necessary, but I’ve met someone with whom things look promising. I don’t know whether to tell him about my lack of experience Pamela Stephenson Connolly advises a reader
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A society of asexual people is trying to promote greater awareness of those who do not feel sexually attracted to others
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The letter you always wanted to write
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Erin Cressida Wilson drew on a young education in erotica for her first script, Secretary. Ahead of the release of Men, Women and Children, she looks back at those first glimpses from the back row
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I used to enjoy masturbating. Could I have suffered some psychological damage that has caused this change? Pamela Stephenson Connolly gives her advice
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A 36-year-old woman who is emotionally attracted to men but physically attracted to women is confused. Mariella Frostrup says it’s time she tried them both out
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Finding romance online is never easy. So Morwenna Ferrier takes to Italian Tinder on a trip to Milan and checks out the local talent
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Verdict in favour of Mary Kortner is latest twist in 11-year case, which raised questions of whether mentally ill adults could consent to sadomasochistic sex
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The Wellcome Collection’s Institute of Sexology exhibition displays the original drawings for Alex Comfort’s bestselling book
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Patrick Strudwick: Nigel Farage blames migrants, but rising HIV infection rates are a homegrown problem we need to tackle ourselves
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Stephen Moss flings off his pullover to unleash his inner libido at the Institute of Sexology exhibition, which probes everything from Victorian masturbation manuals to priapic pottery
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I’m 24 and my sex drive has diminished after a stressful and frustrating few months. What can I do? Pamela Stephenson Connolly advises a reader
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Mikayla Novak: Tim Wilson recently called upon Australians to engage in respectful conversations about the position of transgender people in our society. To that end, I volunteer my personal story
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Laura McNally: Child sex abuse is not so far removed from the glamorised world of adult pornography – in fact, it is part of its continuum
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Fern Riddell: The idea that orgasms were administered to women by doctors is pure fantasy
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We have been together for several years and I still desire him, but am increasingly remaining dry. What can I do? Pamela Stephenson Connolly advises a reader
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Vibrators, erotica, condoms … Christopher Turner puts on his plastic gloves to examine treasures from the Institute of Sexology, and finds that the pioneers of the study of sex were not just campaigners, they were political activists and collectors, too
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In Portugal a judge reduced a compensation payout to a woman because she was in her 50s and so her “sex life isn’t as important”
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Jeff Sparrow: The kitchen’s as fraught as the bedroom – even more so because cooking seems so innocent. Cooking is where our most profound political and social anxieties are brought to light
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Originally published in the Guardian on 6 November 1976: ‘If people must really see X or AA films then I think they should not object to paying a little extra for the privilege’ - Richard Body MP
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From the Guardian archive From the archive, 5 November 1960: Lady Chatterley's Lover cleared in obscenity trial
Originally published in the Guardian on 5 November 1960: Michael Frayn on DH Lawrence’s novel and the possibility of motoring - which requires skill, gives pleasure but leads to disaster if misapplied - becoming the new taboo -
Sexual healing I’ve been with my boyfriend for three years, but he’s only ever made me climax a few times
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The actors say they’re happy, the makers say it’s guilt-free – but what exactly is ‘fair trade’ porn? Zoe Williams finds out
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Kitty Stryker: It’s too easy for abusive people to leverage the idea that consent and communication isn’t ‘sexy’ against their victims
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Letter: Heterosexual women are much more likely to get robbed by men using a dating app, so they’re the people who need to be warned
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She says she is ready to have sex, but she doesn’t feel comfortable being naked in front of me. How can I put her at ease? Pamela Stephenson Connolly advises a reader
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From the Observer archive From the Observer archive, 26 October 1969: Copenhagen hosts Scandinavia’s first pornographic fair
Denmark’s relaxed censorship has reduced crime and porn consumption at home, but the tourists don’t know where to look first, writes Roy Perrott
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Hugh Ryan: Call us a ‘thruple’ if you must. My boyfriends and I are happy together, even if it makes some people uncomfortable
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Ann-Marlene Henning, a best-selling Danish sexologist, is on a crusade to give the internet generation a porn-free sex education – with a little help from her son
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I’m no fan of the porno-industrial complex but these new rules are unworkable