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St. Louis Lesbian Couple Gets Creepy Anonymous Letter After Wedding

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Kelley Harris and Kelly Barnard of St. Louis brought the whole family along with them to the Recorder of Deeds office.
After years of working at Planned Parenthood, Kelley Harris is trained to spot threat letters.

So when a letter with an incomplete return address arrived at the St. Louis home she shares with her new wife and their two children, Harris got suspicious.

"As soon as I saw it in the mail, I thought, 'Oh, this is probably a hate letter,'" Harris tells Daily RFT.

The anonymous, lengthy letter sent from Omar, West Virginia, and postmarked through Charleston, West Virginia, which was postmarked the day after Harris and Barnard married at St. Louis City Hall after a judge ruled Missouri's ten-year-old ban on same-sex marriage is unconstitutional, appears to target the couple for their same-sex nuptials. Harris says she and her wife don't know anyone in West Virginia.

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The letter sent to the newlyweds.
The letter (transcribed below) attempts to convince Harris and her wife, Kelly Barnard, to "repent (turn away) from all sin" and spend eternity with Jesus.

"As a righteous judge, God cannot overlook disobedience to His laws," the letter says. "The judgement for anyone who dies in their sins will be eternal separation from God in a fiery place of torment called Hell."

There's no explicit threat or promise of further action, but Harris says just the fact that the author knew her wife's name and where their family lives feels threatening.

"It's a little scary to have somebody addressing something to your home in an anonymous way," Harris says. "It's not threatening in a 'They are going to come and get you' type of threat. It's that insecurity you get. It feels invasive."

See also: Photos: First Same-Sex Couples Wed in St. Louis City Hall Following Judge's Ruling

Harris says she thinks the response would have been more hateful and overwhelming if Missouri had legalized gay marriage ten years earlier. Now, she says, there's only the occasional online comment and this strange letter.

"Hopefully -- I'll give this person the benefit of the doubt -- they feel they're doing something they need to do to be happy in life," Harris says. "Hopefully they know it makes people feel uncomfortable and threatened, and maybe they could do it in a different way."

Here's the full text of the letter:

The Ultimate Statistic

Four out of five dentists recommend Trident, but ten out of every ten people will die. We are all part of this ultimate statistic. Have you ever wondered what happens after someone dies? The Bible tells us in Hebrews 9:27 that we are all appointed to die and then face judgement. THis judgement is for isn (disobedience to God's laws.) The Bible declares in Romans 3:23 that all have sinned and come short of God's glory. Our sins separate us from God, who is holy and righteous. Through our God-given conscience, the 10 commandments reveal sin to us. We know that it's wrong to lie, steal, commit adultery, murder and use God's name in vain.

As a righteous judge, God cannot overlook disobedience to His laws. The judgement for anyone who dies in their sins will be eternal separation from God in a fiery place of torment called Hell. However, we can escape this judgement and inherit eternal life in Heaven because the Son of God, Jesus Christ, took the judgement for mankind's sins upon Himself as He gave His life on the Cross at Calvary. Three days later, Jesus rose from the dead and is alive forevermore. Jesus Christ is the only one to walk this earth without breaking any commandments (Hebrews 4:15). The sinless blood that jesus shed on the Cross washes away sin and is the only payment for our violation of God's laws. We cannot earn our way to Heaven; good deeds do not outweigh bad deeds. We need the righteousness of Christ in order to be acceptable to God. John 3:16 says that God sacrificed His Son for the entire world. Regardless of things like wealth or status in life, everyone needs Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior.

Eternal salvation is ONLY obtained by receiving Jesus Christ into your heart by faith. Call upon Him in Prayer, believing that He is the Son of God who died and rose again for your sins. Confess to Jesus that you're a sinner. Ask Him to come into your heart and forgive you, and repent (turn away) from all sin. Tell others about your trust in Jesus as your Savior, be baptized, and make Him the Lord of your life as you live by faith in Him and obedience to the Bible.

James 4:14 says that life is like a vapor; it exists for a short time and then vanishes. There is no promise of tomorrow. Receive Christ today and be prepared to meet him when your appointed time with death comes. Christ thought you were worth dying for. Live for Him.

ETERNITY: Mount Everest, the tallest mountain on Earth, is 5.5 miles high. If you could remove only one teaspoon of dirt from Mount Everest every 1,000 years until the entire mountain was gone, the 1st second of eternity would not have even started by the time you were finished.

Follow Lindsay Toler on Twitter at @StLouisLindsay. E-mail the author at Lindsay.Toler@RiverfrontTimes.com.


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142 comments
kwohld89
kwohld89

Four out of five dentists recommend Trident? That's good to know!

cyrollan
cyrollan

hahahaha, articles like these really bring the knuckleheads out of the woodwork!

cleve187
cleve187

www.evilbible.com/Murder

Scott Shoemaker
Scott Shoemaker

No threats just opinion. What's the big deal. Put on your big girl panties.

Vincent Green
Vincent Green

The shyt is not normal no matter what you people twist and put a spin on, the same sex organs having sex with one another and the anus which is for waste to be discreted, being used for sexual intercourse is really a form of insanity, if you really think about it. Look at us as a nation how we are disintegrating in every way imaginable.

Vincent Green
Vincent Green

Looking at these comments on here, in full support of this gross sin, no wonder this country is in the Moral Decadent, Racial Violent, Criminal Violent, Murderous, Greedy state it is in. God is showing us what life is like independent of him.

Vincent Green
Vincent Green

What is good is bad, and what is bad, is good. No matter how much support this cause gets, there is wrong and their is right. God has given mankind a commandment to multiply and have dominion over the earth, and that can only be accomplished through marriage as God arranged it. Note: God is Love and so is he Hate and he hates when man goes against the natural order of things, that he created. Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve, no matter what type of spin you put on it!

Couch Pig
Couch Pig

Lawyers and judges make our democracy now?

Couch Pig
Couch Pig

Jesus died because the jews did not like him...man glorified his story and capitalized off of it for many years...because the majority of the global intelligence level is under 100

Roshanda Simpson
Roshanda Simpson

je alsp knew. he eould die but guess what he rose on the third day. my dear.God bless you all

Matt Thomas
Matt Thomas

ALLCAPS doesn't make it less retarded bro.

Matt Thomas
Matt Thomas

You were designed to have a functioning brain... But look what you've gone and done with it. Sad...

Matt Thomas
Matt Thomas

It's been 2,000 years. Maybe it's time to move on...

Matt Thomas
Matt Thomas

Do you listen to yourself as you talk?

Kate Warden
Kate Warden

Creepy people are gross. Keep your religious doctrine at home. Judgement of others is the real sin here.

Leo Johnson
Leo Johnson

It is an the devil for same sex to lay with each other, read your bible.LEVITICUS 18:22 THOU SHALL NOT LIE WITH MANKIND, AS WITH WOMANKIND:IT IS ABOMINATION.NEITHER SHALT THOUS LIE WITH ANY BEAST TO DEFILE THYSELF THERE WITH,BUT LAURA DEE YOU CAN READ IT FOR YOUR SELF,GOD BLESS TO DO SO,

kelley.k.harris
kelley.k.harris

I appreciate the discussion about gay marriage on this forum. Here people can see who you are when you make a comment about a social issue. Open Conversation and conflict on the issue are essential to moving towards equality for all. Thank you for the kind words many of you expressed to our family.

Phoebe Landrum
Phoebe Landrum

Congrats to these ladies, haters are going to hate that's just what they do.

Brittany Utterback
Brittany Utterback

May the letters stop and yall enjoy your new beginning as a married couple :)

Dave Faron
Dave Faron

Hey, that's my old high school mate Kelley, sister to the one and only Luci Schneider. Congrats Kelley, I wish your family the best. I hope you took that letter very seriously, because the person that sent it is obviously batshit insane, and probably 'sins' a lot more than any of us. I'm happy for you and the fact that you got to get married in our home state, finally.

David J. McCutcheon
David J. McCutcheon

I'll be looking down upon it all from Heaven, sippin' on some cherub punch (which is kind of like sizzurp, but you drink it while wearing angel wings) with Ice-T and Nate Dogg.

Ivan Schoen
Ivan Schoen

Jesus died because the Roman Empire saw him as a threat. Guess who the Roman Empire us today.

Ivan Schoen
Ivan Schoen

Why are you so interested. Looking for a boyfriend?

Ivan Schoen
Ivan Schoen

The writer of the letter has a misinterpretion of the Bible.

James Randall
James Randall

Maybe he meant who cares about some toothless religious whacko 1000 miles away, and that he knows one of the Kelly's

David Stl
David Stl

No I mean who cares about dumb people sending emails like that. Thats just pathetic that someone is filled with enough hate to do that crap. I am all for letting gays get married and divorced etc...

Ivan Schoen
Ivan Schoen

The content of the letter represents a toxic interpretation of the Bible. When thoroughly researched one does not come to the conclusions of this cowardly author. Really, seriously, it would be most helpful if people actually studied the Bible instead of accepting the crap they have been told by the fundamentalists.

Laura Dee
Laura Dee

You cared enough to bother posting here. Smh.

Anderson Eugene Shelton
Anderson Eugene Shelton

Laura I think we both understand my intended point. I'm sorry that your parents couldn't concieve, but it doesn't change the fact that they were physiologically designed to do so. Anyone who has taken a course on anatomy or health can see and understand that human existence cannot go on without a man and a woman coming together, just as God designed it. No man, no sperm. No female no egg.

Laura Dee
Laura Dee

Roshanda... your 'god' let him (and me and every other athiest) wake up this morning. Are you claiming you know who should be allowed to wake up in the morning better than your 'god' does? Smh. You should be scared for what your god will say to you at the pearly gates. You aren't very humble.

kwohld89
kwohld89

It's the fact that the sender somehow found out her home address that makes the whole ordeal unnerving.

kwohld89
kwohld89

Noone cares what you think, old man.

cleve187
cleve187

people that want to live their lives and judge people by some book of fiction from over 2,000+ years ago is kinda creepy

christian_hotter
christian_hotter

Leviticus 11:10And all that have not fins and scales in the seas, and in the rivers, of all that move in the waters, and of any living thing which is in the waters, they shall be an abomination unto you: 11They shall be even an abomination unto you; ye shall not eat of their flesh, but ye shall have their carcases in abomination. 12Whatsoever hath no fins nor scales in the waters, that shall be an abomination unto you.


There is a long list of abominations and commandments that most people (even religious people) ignore. If you want to stay true to your strict version of Biblical law then you can keep that in your own house. The rest of us will practice our religions (or non religion) the way we want. God bless America and our religious freedoms. 

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