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[ - ] I cannot turn away from this Sage Kelly story. It is such a train wreck 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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I feel horrible for the dcs. they're going to need some serious therapy. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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Agreed, these people are beyond disgusting [ Reply | More ]
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both him and the ex wife sound awful. Just proves that money does not buy you happiness or stability [ Reply | More ]
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Do tell. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Any former SAHMs on who chose not to go back to work right away (and then took a few years off) b/c you either didn't like your company or industry? How long did you take to figure out what you wanted to do? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Watching this! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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I did. But I had to go back to work so jumped in right where I left off. When dh gets going on this biz, I'm done. Getting ready for act II ! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:03 AM Flag
[ - ] Any md moms on? 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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maryland or doctors? [ Reply | More ]
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LOL! [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Where are you going trick or treating tomorrow? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:55 AM Flag
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Brooklyn Heights and Cobble Hill [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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West 95th Street [ Reply | More ]
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My building [ Reply | More ]
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Battery Park City [ Reply | More ]
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I'm going to take my pumpkin-shaped bag around the four floors of my office, and if I don't do well there, I'll venture out to other floors. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What was the worst apartment you ever lived in in NYC? Include neighborhood/approx rent/year 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Ugh maybe the one right now as they are having a party next door and I can't hear myself think. [ Reply | More ]
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Ugh I hate that. It's 10 now on a week night. You can probably call the doormen on them now. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Ha- no more doorman. We downgraded to a brownstone. I texted 311 but they replied to call 911 but I don't feel comfortable doing that. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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5th floor studio walk up in Chelsea. 95-97. Can't remember how much. Wasn't so bad, fireplace, access to roof, etc. But it's only non-doorman, non-elevator building I've lived in. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] I never had any attraction to exdh. He was a good man and I knew he would make a good father. We had nothing else in common. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Okay. [ Reply | More ]
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Hence the ex then [ Reply | More ]
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csb [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Play my game. Would you rather get HIV or Ebola? 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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why would anyone want to play a game like that? it's dark and disturbing. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Because I am curious! It's ibviously on my mind and I keep hearing it being compared to HIV and personally I keep thinking with Ebola a lot of people just die, so I think id rather have HIV. I was wondering what everyone would pick. Like it's soooo much more disturbing than whatever other nonsense is posted here. I hope I don't keep you awake with nightmares. Apologies. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Ebola in the US, I would have a better change to survive. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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Chance^ [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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HIV. What would you prefer, HIV, Ebola or Cancer? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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I'll go with Ebola. I think if you catch it early and get the antibodies, chances are fairly good. Don't want to live popping like for the rest of my life and get horrible disease that don't kill you but make you miserable. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:02 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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Hmmm...I think the worst think about Ebola is you kind of can't say goodbye to your family or even hug them before you go for treatment...and how many blood plasma transfers is one doc going to give. On the other hand, HIV seems to have such a stigma. Both terrible. I can't vote, [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:06 AM Flag
[ - ] What is your best mommy secret for raising great kids? 12 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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Get a lucky roll of the genetic dice. Seriously. My dh and I are assholes and we have 3 good ones. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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+1 -- though the third is questionable. he's too young to tell so far. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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Books, books, books. Great literature is the key to enlightened kids. Everything else can be prepped. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Parents can't take the credit nor the blame. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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the most sane answer on here [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:58 AM Flag
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+1 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:05 AM Flag
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Trust your kids to do things; kids can do so much more than most parents allow them to do. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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I'm an indulgent hard ass. I expect them to do well, work hard and treat people fairly. My kids aren't great, but then they aren't teens yet so there's still a lot of downhill to struggle against. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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Let them learn at an early age that their actions have consequences. I am not getting them out of trouble [ Reply | More ]
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Show them the importance of family time and hug them a lot [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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+1! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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No time out and not saying "good job" so much. Eliminate all external motivation sources. Everything a child does should come from internal desire. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:02 AM Flag
[ - ] Sometimes I secretly feel like I failed because I never married. I am 42 and have 2 dc via sperm donor (friend). 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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42 is young! If you want to partner-up, partner up you will. Don't be down. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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Are you on crack? She can't conceive more kids. Partner is possible but no more kids. And bravo to you OP - very brave! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Op here. Well my youngest is 6 months so most likely I can probably have more... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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Same here. 43, 1 DC with donor. [ Reply | More ]
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Sounds lucky to me. You were blessed with two children! If you want to get in a relationship go ahead! No different than a divorced mom with kids. And you're still so young. [ Reply | More ]
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Look at it this way, if you had married you would likely not have the 2 dc's that you now have. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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I hail you- I really, really do. If you want to go and feel like a failure, there is always an excuse to do so- and there is no shortage of women in failed marriages, who feel that way all the time. You went and took life by the balls! Can you imagine if you hadn't done that. If you feel like meeting the right man will make you and your family complete, then by all means, go for it. But it seemed like you went for what you wanted! Meeting the right man, may never happen (marriage or not). Just focus your energies on your kids, not on feeling like a failure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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Still time to get married. Harder with kids, though. Going to pay for dd to freeze her eggs before she turns 30 if no engagement at the time. Take the pressure off. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:04 AM Flag
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Omfg you with the egg freezing. So bizarre. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:06 AM Flag
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This is weird. Your dd's ovaries are her own business. [ Reply | More ]
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Op. I have to agree here... [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Is real estate market softening in nyc? I think prices will come down in the next two years. Anyone agree? 3 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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maybe if there is a catastrophic world event. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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More like the opposite, I think. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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I don't see why prices would go down in prime areas. They might not go up quite as fast. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Is anyone watching The Affair on Showtime? I'm finding that I like the woman who he's having an affair with much more than the wife and her horribly obnoxious family. What are your reactions??? 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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taping it but haven't started yet. any good? looks like could be either great or horrible. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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I am really into it. But I'm finding that I'm siding - if you can call it that- emotionally, with the affair partner. And yes, I'm married. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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I like it - much better than I thought it'd be. Don't share your dislike for the wife though. Her father is a pill but the mother has grown on me, by episode 3. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:48 AM Flag
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Thanks. I don't know why I don't like her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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I think it's a great show. But does everyone have that much sex??? Married couple that works full time with 4 kids and all they do is get it on. And have time to exercise! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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they do on tv! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:04 AM Flag
[ - ] Poll: did you go to public or private? does your dc go to public or private? how would you rate your dc's school 1-10? 21 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Private. private. 7. [ Reply | More ]
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public, private, 9 [ Reply | More ]
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me: private, switched to public (not NYC). dc: private, rate school 8.5 [ Reply | More ]
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I went public, DH private. We tried private for a few years for DCs but left for public (left NYC for burbs). My public school experience was a 9/10. I'd rate my DCs experience (so far) an 8. [ Reply | More ]
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Public, private, 8 [ Reply | More ]
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My dc goes to public. I would rate it 6 or 7. I went to school in another country [ Reply | More ]
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started in private, ended up in public, dc does public. love the school : 9.5 [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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Charter, 9. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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^^ I went to private, public and selective public. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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DH and I both private. DCs likely to go public (not in NYC) [ Reply | More ]
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Public 1-9, prep school 10-12. eould anticipate the same for DCs, although #2 started public in K [ Reply | More ]
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Public high, private college - public MS, 8 [ Reply | More ]
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Public, private, 9. [ Reply | More ]
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Me: public then private (NYC) 9/10, DCs (not in nyc): 2 in Public (top 10 in state) 1 in private prep school. Both 8.5/10 [ Reply | More ]
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Me- Public all the way. Married a man who only went to private (and is kind of snobby about this, imo). Kids: public all the way through high school, private colleges. Can't really rate my kids' schools. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:54 AM Flag
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This is me too but dh has convinced me to switch to private. [ Reply | More ]
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You need to clarify what is meant by "private". Some people call catholic school private. To me, there is public, parochial (catholic) and private. Parochial - catholic - and private are NOT THE SAME. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:57 AM Flag
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Public, public, 7.5 and they love it. I wouldn't give higher than that for any school outside homeschooling. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:59 AM Flag
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I went to private and DC's go to public. I am one of those weirdos who NEVER send my kids to private, even if they could go for free. Would rate DC's public a 7. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:00 AM Flag
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why not? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Why not if free? Better selection bias and smarter teachers, though not brilliant until maybe high school. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:05 AM Flag
[ - ] Poll of people who hate Brooklyn: Where did you grow up, and where do you live now? 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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I love Brooklyn. [ Reply | More ]
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can you read? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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I grew up hating Brooklyn. Manhattan. Brooklyn. Love it now! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Zzzzzzzzzz [ Reply | More ]
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I never met a single person who hates Brooklyn. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] Is Spence or Chapin more academically challenging? 1 Reply [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Prob about the same. Why nit pick on this? If you get accepted at both, then obsess about this. [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] I didn't realize my kid was fat until now. 5 yo is wearing size 7 husky :( 11 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
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Height and weight? [ Reply | More ]
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height/weight? I feel like sizing isn't such an accurate indicator. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:42 AM Flag
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48 inches, 79 lbs but built solid [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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Just 5 or almost 6? That IS really big! My dd is 45" and 47lbs and one of the biggest her age. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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He will be 6 in February [ Reply | More ]
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Has he always been big? Clearly you have a big kid, but it's possible he's just growing earlier than peers. [ Reply | More ]
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Yes he's always been enormous. He was born 8 lbs 13 oz and got bigger from there. He looks husky but not really overweight. [ Reply | More ]
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My 6yo is 44" and 42 lbs [ Reply | More ]
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That's my 4 yr old! Maybe a few inches taller. [ Reply | More ]
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Wow, he weighs double my almost 7 year old. Your child is beyond husky. You have to do something about getting him on a healthy track because this is lifelong stuff. Nobody else will do it for him, it is your responsibility is a parent. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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so watcha gonna do it about it, mama? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:05 AM Flag
[ - ] I was catcalled today twice while walking with my young children, pushing them in their stroller. The second time it happened I stopped, turned to the man (a construction worker standing on his truck) and said: "I don't appreciate your comments. How would you feel if someone said something like that to your daughter". I'm sure it didn't make a difference but it made me feel a little bit better. 14 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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Fake. Construction workers park in a lot just like everybody else. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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Huh? Truck was parked on the street next to the building being worked on. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:47 AM Flag
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Right, because everyone get street parking right outside of their job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:50 AM Flag
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They often double park, use loading zones, and wait for legal alt side. Why so skeptical? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Seriously? This is the point you're choosing to focus on? Yes, the truck (it was not necessarily HIS truck) that was filled with building materials was parked outside of a building that was under construction. True, I don't know that it was the same construction site where he was working but does that give him license to harass me? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:51 AM Flag
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Just move on. [ Reply | More ]
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Right, because everyone get street parking right outside of their job. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:49 AM Flag
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This has happened to me too and it sucks. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:44 AM Flag
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I'm just glad I wasn't with my older dc (5) who would have asked "why is that man talking to you" or similar. I don't know how i would be able to begin to answer her. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:46 AM Flag
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I don't thinki have ever been catcalled in my entire life. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:52 AM Flag
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Really? I've been dealing with it since I was 11 - I have a very specific memory of the first time it happened. I was in Paris, with my mom, and we were both harassed by a group of young frenchmen. It happens on a regular basis but not usually when i'm WITH my children! Although once a man approached me and started asking "Is that YOUR kid? You don't look like you could have a kid," etc. Right - that's going to tempt me. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:53 AM Flag
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What do you look like? Blonde? [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:01 AM Flag
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Not blonde. I'm attractive, but not ridiculously so, but apparently I get checked out way more than I realize (according to dh). I'm usually pretty oblivious to such things. 5'8, long brown hair, nice figure. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 02:03 AM Flag
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Big boobs, good butt or outstanding legs or just thin? [ Reply | More ]
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[ - ] What are 8/9/10 year old boys like? This is my next era. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:38 AM Flag
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Love em! That's right before they get stinky! [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:39 AM Flag
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adorabe, fun, energetic, funny [ Reply | More ]
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+1. every other day is "the best day of my life!" [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:41 AM Flag
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great age [ Reply | More ]
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op here. ok, this is encouraging. right now 5 and 6 is pretty awesome. [ Reply | More ]
General Topics 10.31.14, 01:43 AM Flag
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five and six is cute too, but i love my nine year old. we can actually laugh at some of the same jokes. he has a great sense of humor. [ Reply | More ]
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+1. they love jokes and are very funny. [ Reply | More ]
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